Hi Friends! I’m super pumped to be doing another guest post for Emily at Raising Barnes! Check it out:

If you’ve ever been married — or have spent any amount of time in pre-marital counseling and/or PreCana — you know that fighting with your spouse is an art form of the highest order. You see, marital communication is not just about whispered sweet nothings and ardent checkbook balancing.

Sometimes, you will fight. You will fight because you actually disagree about something. You’ll fight because you’ve decided that your spouse is a jerk. You’ll fight because you’re being a jerk.

Fights happen and as long as you set some ground rules for yourself, you can fight as much as you want* without damaging your relationship.

Read the rest here.